Some people ask me, ” Andrew dont you hate working every w.e as a Topless waiter?” For me I try and put a positive spin on it.

Basically I’m at a party, socialising and pouring drinks playing games and having fun. This is what I would be doing on the w.e anyway. But it least this way i get paid for it.

The photo Above is a job I did about 6 months back. Was quite a fun night, where the Karaoke was pulled out and we all had a crack at singing some tunes. Again you never really know what to expect when you turn up to topless waitering job. I guess that’s one of the reasons I enjoy being a Topless Waiter. It is always a little mental challenge to try and win everyone over with-in 2 or 3 hours you have their.

Challenges for the Hen/bride to be:

For example,

• She has to walk out of the toilet with her skirt tucked in your undies until someone who isn’t part of the hen’s night points it out.
• Ask 5 guys for their numbers and then give them the rejection number.
• Ask as many guys as possible to buy her a drink in a bar or night- club.
• Get her to call her Ex and announce she is getting Married and he is missing out.

Hen’s night games

Always make the night fun and never boring.

Quizzes

Quizzes are great entertainment for all. Make sure your asking the correct questions that will challenge and embarrass her in front of the groom’s mother.

Topless waiter

Topless waiters are great entertainment at hen’s nights. They serve a purpose, in serving drinks and food but their also great fun for the group of screaming girls.

Frozen cocktail machine.

These are great idea for a hen’s night,

1. Because they are self serve and easy to use.
2. You can choose what alcohol and how much of it you would like in it.

Male stripper

No hen’s night is complete without a male stripper. They are great entertainment and give the bride a true last hurrah.

Not aloud to Say: Not aloud to say are words that can not be said during the party.  The game continues throughout the party and every time someone mentions the word that they are not aloud to say, they have to take a drink. Or maybe do a dare.

I have never – One person starts by saying, “I have never, and then comes up with something she has never done. If anyone in the group has actually done it they have to sit down. Til the last person remaining is still standing. Most likely Nanna.

Handcuff the bride — This works great if you have hired a topless waiter or male stripper because they are great to be hand cuffed to. She will be stuck right next to the hunky male for as long as the girls choose, for they have the keys. It’s not uncommon that the bride is quite happy to keep the cuffs on.

Make a Penis – Team up into several teams. Each team has to sculpt, out of clay/playdoh the best penis possible. Then the bride has to pick her Favourite penis.

Pin the penis. – Blindfolded then spun around by your topless waiter then pointed in the general direction of a picture. Then the girl who pinned the penis closest to pin up poster mans groin, WINS.

How well do you know you soon to be husband?

This game does take some preparation prior to the hen’s night, but is well worth the effort.

Firstly the bridesmaid or bridesmaids go to meet the soon to be Hubby while the hen is not their. They then explain that they are going to ask him personal questions for him to answer then write them down so they can ask the hen those questions at the hen’s night. She will have to answer the questions in front of everyone including the mother in law. Hence the title: How well do you know you soon to be husband.

Questions like

1. Which are his favourite undies?
2. What is his favourite vacation location?
3. Does he have tattoo n where?
4. What is his favourite soccer team?
5. What are his parent’s, brothers and sisters names?
6. Where was he born?
7. What was the first album he ever bought?
8. What was his first job and where?
9. What is his top 3 favourite movie?
10. What is his favourite song or/& band?

They are just some of many, just get creative and it will be hard to stop. Take a note not to do too many as you don’t want people to lose interest.

A great way to this is to get your topless waiter to read out the questions. Girls will pay more attention that way.

Feel free to add some good questions, just comment below

Some great theme ideas are:

• Burlesque
• Touch of pink
• Famous brides: example: Katie Holmes, Kerry of sex in the city.
• Playboy bunnies
• 80s theme
• Cow girls
• Bollywood
• 27 dresses
• Sex in the city
• Neon theme
• Naughty
• Exotic
• Princesses & fairies
• Hollywood Red Carpet
• Arabian
• Belly dancers
• Belle theme
• PINK!
• Black and white

Make sure you get every one involved down to you topless waiter or your male stripper. If it’s a cow girl night make sure you stripper does cow boy show. Or have your waiter in cow boy pants.

Please feel free to add more themes, just leave a comment below

In my Opinion the best time is b/w 9:30 and 11:30 if you plan to go out.

Or between 10:00 & 12:00 if you planning on staying in.

By this time the girls generally would have been at the location for a few hours and feel settled in. Hopefully your topless waiter has been serving the girls drinks making them feel very happy and excited to see a great show.

As topless waiter I have attended hen’s night’s at all different times from 2:00 in the arvo through til starting at 11:00pm.

But in my opinion the best time for your topless waiter to arrive at you hens night is:

Between 6:30pm & 9:00pm

Its all Depending on the group of girls at the party, whether their big parties who like to go clubbing at 11:00/12:00 or they plan to stay in the whole night. You can have your waiter just for your pre drinks prior to your outings or have them their as the main attraction for the night in. Other thing to keep in mind is what time your Male stripper is arriving.

This is up for discussion feel free to leave a comment and the time you think is best for a topless waiter to arrive.

You have 2 options:

1. Buy hens night theme templates: cheap invitations

2. Design your own

A good start with most hens’ night invitations is to have:

• Plenty of PINK.
• BOLD exciting fonts
• Plenty of pics

Examples: male strippers or hot a topless waiter. Cute pictures of the hen and the soon to be hubby

• Location and time
• Date
• B.y.o or not b.y.o
• Events happening through out the night: E.g: leaving at 10:00 to go the male revue show.
• Jokes
• Funny things you didn’t know about the bride
• Quotes that bride always says

Of course there are many other crucial things that need to added

It is a well know fact that a group of girls will eat a lot less then your avg group at a party. So make sure you tailor for that. Food is obviously very important especially when alcohol is involved. But as a Topless waiter I see a lot of un-eaten food week in week out. So I’ve made a list of the essentials which will be more then enough food to keep everyone happy.

• Party pies
• Party Lollies
• Dim Sims, spring roll ect.
• Dips, with cucumber, celery & carrot
• Light salad
• Chocolate
• Fruit or fruit salad

Keeping it healthy is always a good idea with girls, most girls are pretty conscious with eating the right foods these days. Of course if you’re having a big stay at home hens night then having a main course is the way to go. Pizza is always great if your plans change and everyone is getting hungry.

A bachelorette party, hen party, hen do, or hen night, is a party held for a woman who is about to be married. The term hen party or hen night is more common in the UK, Ireland, and Australia, while the term bachelorette party is more common in the United States. …

Hens night definition:

A women’s night out before marriage,

A party or evening out for a woman who is about to be married, attended only by her women friends

They both mean the same thing and all contain the same stuff:

Male strippers

Topless waiters

Hen’s games

Girls celebrating a friend or family member getting married

Suggestions on how to throw an awesome Hens Night/Day

You have many options on what you can do and where you can go. One of the first steps is:

-To choose either a Hens Night In or a Hens night out. Or both?

-Whether you want to have it in town (City)

-Or through it at one of the bridesmaids house

These always a venue like a bar or club and of course there are boat cruises now too.

Once you’ve decided on a Time and a Place, get cracking.

Send out Hens Party invites and get the word out.

Secondly comes the decision whether to go see Entertainment like a male revue

Or have them come to you. For E.g a Topless Waiter or Male Stripper

Then there is Food and drinks, from my experience nearly 90% of food at hens nights never gets eaten. So save your money their and leave that for the end the night when your at a kebab store. Or at the Maccas drive through.

Champaign, White Wine and Vodka will always be your most consumed Beveridge so make sure you have enough.

Hens toys and games, while not a must they make the night fun. So even if it’s a night out make sure you dress the bride in silly Hens day clothing.

It works best when everyone gets involved and everyone lets loose.

Most of all:

Keep it simple and uncomplicated with the right group it will always be a night to remember.

The perfect Girls night out on the town should entail:

• Good group of 3 to 10 girls
• A theme:

E.g: Dress pink

Ur highest heels

• Dares: Bring one sex toy with you when you go out

Ask 3 guys for their number then tear it in the face.

• Intention to make Havoc
• A Trip to see some Male Strippers
• Drinking games
• Punishments to the loser of the Drinking game.
• Rules which make the night more fun.
• A place where you can all crash.

What else would make a great Girls night out on the town?

What makes the perfect Bachelorette Party?

• Vodka, Champaign and wine
• Cheesy 80’s and 90’s music
• A Cheap hotel room in the city
• A Topless Waiter serving you drinks
• All your closest and single girlfriends
• Party Rules, E.G:

No talk of Husbands,No talks of Ex’s ect

• Drinking games
• Plans for a Pub crawl
• A Spunky Male Stripper before you leave

It always seems to be a bit of a scramble to organise drinks for you girlfriends hens night. So here is a list of essentials you can use to make it easy:

3 Most Important:

VODKA…. Obvious but when it comes to girls it essential

Champagne… Again very much the same deal as above

White Wine

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Then these are great for mixing and for shots:

Midori.

Tequila

Cow boy shots.

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If you are well organised then:

Cocktails like,

Cosmos

Sunrises

Pina colada

Will always be the girls favourites

Of course there are stacks of other great drinks but as Topless Waiter and a Male Stripper I see those drinks as being the most common.

Topless Waiter or a male Stripper?

Both Topless Waiters and Male Strippers offer a great service:

Pros for Topless waiter:

-Spends minimum 2 hours with the group

- Help you throughout the night with drinks, food ect.

- Are their for games

Pros for Male Strippers:

-Put on a great show, that are always entertaing.

- You see, feel and touch more then a topless waiter

- Give the Hen a real last hoo raar!

Its a tough one…